AS SINGAPORE grapples with a severe downturn, Singaporeans might want to take another look at their values.

What really motivates us? Is it the pursuit of wealth or material things? Would we be happy if we got that coveted condominium or dream sports car?

When I was working in China, I was a frequent visitor to a tea shop opened by a mother- daughter pair.

Seeing how busy I was with work even though I was in a rural province in China, the mother often advised me: 'There's no need to live such a fast-paced life, and no need to earn so much money.'

Though her words were simple, they struck a chord with me, and still do when I feel the stress of adapting to life in Singapore. People in Singapore are always rushing, and as they struggle to make a living, they are seldom able to find the time to build relationships.

Having lived and worked in China and Australia, I find that Singaporeans have paid a high price for the prosperity they enjoy. They have no time to slow down and smell the roses. Life simply passes them by.

In Australia, weekends are the best time to relax and unwind. It is also the time when locals head for the beach or flea market.

Australians have learnt to separate work from play, and enjoy a balanced lifestyle. Shops there all close at 6pm, and the rush for riches is given lower priority.

Australians work hard during the week, but play hard during the weekends.

I can't say the same for Singaporeans, many of whom spend the weekend catching up on lost sleep after having worked 10-hour days. They are slaves to their work.

As you enjoy the festive season, take some time to ask yourself if you are truly happy with who you are, and whether there are things you can improve upon. Here's to a year of health and prosperity ahead!

Mr Gilbert Goh Keow Wah

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